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Chris McMahon said on 2006.04.25

"Businesses don't feel, they don't get angry, they don't get hurt... they just do business."

Businesses also do not send and reply to email, people do.

Don't come across as this faceless, unfeeling corporate monolith. No one cares about monoliths.

Be yourself, let some emotion through. People connect to emotions, they can rally around you, they can evangelize you and your company because they care.

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Angie said on 2006.04.26

quote: "Businesses also do not send and reply to email, people do."

Chris, I agree completely with this. However, there's a difference between personalizing/putting a face on your business, and the kind of emotional responses I'm talking about here. This is something, I've found, that women in particular tend to fall into when running their own business:

* taking business decisions personally
* lashing out personally in email
* attacking companies by email when you don't get your way
* being "hurt" by customer comments, and SAYING SO in an emailed response to the customer... "you've hurt my feelings with your actions"

[sigh] Wish I was making all the above up, but I've seen it and more since going out on my own and dealing with other entrepreneurs.

So, yes, be personal by all means, don't be faceless. However, actions like I've described above will NOT do your business any good. Evangelism comes from a positive and personal connection, not necessarily an emotional one.

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kathy said on 2006.04.26

I agree! Basically you MUST keep your ego out of your business period. BUT Chris I think you are talking about something altogether different than what Angie is talking about. You can be yourself - and *still* come across as professional and ethical (and FWIW I belive that my clients appreciate this toggle act a great deal). It is a very fine line to walk - even more so when your business *involves* some sort of emotional attachment. You need to know when to wear different hats for different situations in a seamless, kindhearted way - all the while maintaining stalwart professional integrity throughout all of your communications.

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Berko said on 2006.04.26

Re: Emoticons
How does using emoticons impact the professional image you are trying to project?

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Fazal Khan said on 2006.04.26

I agree with Chris to a certain extent, but what "I"feel" Angie is trying to illustrate is the stance you take on dealing with issues. It's more professional to say:

"You have not delivered...which has caused...this can't happen again...etc"

As opposed to

"I'm so disapointed with you, you didnt deliver on time...now am i supposed to do?...etc"

What you're doing is dealing with the issue, or dealing with the subject at hand. Getting emotional just makes you look like a kid in a playground. But of course, once you hit send (or during writing it) curse and swear all you want.

GREAT LEGS!

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Angie said on 2006.04.26

Berko: for me, emoticons are an invaluable way to appear friendly, casual, personal, while still businesslike. It helps give context to sentences that might otherwise be taken the wrong way - yes, I do realize that means it's a "shortcut", instead of rewriting to make the context clear - but given the volume of email I deal with daily, I'm OK with making that choice.

I do think it's a personal choice, though, whether or not to use it in your business. Either way, you need to keep context in mind at all times when writing an email, and always try to consider how your email might be received by a different person.

Fazal, Kathy: exactly. :) And thanks - about the legs! Woo!

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said on 2006.04.27

I agree with all your points except the part about not putting emotion in the email. Not putting TOO MUCH is important, but Emoticons are "emotional icons."

Email is more casual than a business letter but it s also more personal.

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J Kelly said on 2006.04.27

I remember reading this a while back: Tips for Mastering Email Overload: http://hbswk.hbs.edu/item.jhtml?id=4438&t=srobbins

Stever Robbins, the author, says "Over 100 real e-mails come in each day. At three minutes apiece, it will take five hours just to read and respond."

There are some great tips here; I defiantly incorporated some of the things in the article, though I'm sure it's time for a reread!

Some good stuff here too!

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reese said on 2006.04.27

I used to be a heavy emoticon user, but when my business grew I had to change some of my tone accordingly.

Emoticons are helpful to me in the same vein Angie cited them--they're a quick way to soften any potential blows and "massage" a client who may be more sensitive than others.

As I develop more personal relationships with some of my clients, I find I use emoticons more to create an atmosphere of friendliness than to offset tone.

Angie, your tips remind me of some articles I've seen of late calling for designers to be better writers. I firmly believe strong writing skills can propell a business to a new level of success, and with the kind of work we do, that starts with email and how you present yourself therein. Wonderful tips! :)

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robbie schmelzer said on 2006.04.29

Some great info here, thanks to lifehacker for the lead. But, before I get into the interaction with my customers, can someone suggest some email software to organize and hone my 2000 customers? We are new to sending mass emails and want to do it right the first time.

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